1.08.2012

The difference between a good student and a bad student


You get coaching and read books about seduction in order to get better with women.

But some students progress while others do not.


Some reach their goals while others do not.

For the most part, it is good students who succeed, and bad students who fail.

What makes a good student?

A good student:

- is ORGANIZED as fuck. Has planned out when and where to practice his approaches.
- takes RESPONSIBILITY for his problems, and doesn't blame them on anyone else. Realizes he has the power to change things for himself.
- will pretty much do anything to improve.
- takes notes during bootcamp.
- does his "homework".
- attempts to see/comprehend the structure of pick up, instead of "doing anything".

What makes a bad student?

Pretty much the opposite of what I've listed above. Especially lack of responsibility.

If you don't take responsibility for your own improvement, and ASSUME everything is your fault, you will have a hard time fixing those faults, if you even try at all.

(Normally you won't. Example: You think certain girls hate your 'type', so you never talk to those girls. You blame it on them, and you never give yourself a chance to get to know those girls. Instead, talk to lots of them! Do they really hate you? Do you give a fuck?)

A lot of these things are deeply rooted beliefs that you don't even realize you have. You just accept it as a law of your universe, so it doesn't even occur to you that you can change it.

You were probably a nerd when you started learning seduction, so don't stop now. Be meticulous. Work hard. You definitely want to nerd out when it comes to picking up girls. Either way, the results will reflect what you put in.

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